This is one of my favorite songs from Bride and Prejudice. Perfectly describes what a girl wants from her would be... Specially in arrange marriages, it's the question of every boy meeting her officially for marriage :- So what are your expectations from a husband?
To be frank even we don't know what do we expect from him...sometimes we overly-idealize the things as we see around us! Good job, great salary, nice home, caring parents all these things are there by default...But I really feel, it's not a product after all and we are not buying it from a market. We look for a person and not the materialistic things in life. Yes practical approach should be there but still we do care of getting a good human being with whom we can share our complete life...The following things may seem a bit bollywood style or unrealistic but yes girls do expect it...
1. A man who adores her, and respects her with all the flows.
2. A man who stands tall with confidence and thinks "thats my woman!"
3. A man who has earned respect, because of who he is to those around him, and not only to her.
4. A man with brains in mind and love in heart and life.
5. A man with a wit and ambition.
and obviously we do respect what his expectations from a wife and surely try to fulfill them. :)
To be frank even we don't know what do we expect from him...sometimes we overly-idealize the things as we see around us! Good job, great salary, nice home, caring parents all these things are there by default...But I really feel, it's not a product after all and we are not buying it from a market. We look for a person and not the materialistic things in life. Yes practical approach should be there but still we do care of getting a good human being with whom we can share our complete life...The following things may seem a bit bollywood style or unrealistic but yes girls do expect it...
1. A man who adores her, and respects her with all the flows.
2. A man who stands tall with confidence and thinks "thats my woman!"
3. A man who has earned respect, because of who he is to those around him, and not only to her.
4. A man with brains in mind and love in heart and life.
5. A man with a wit and ambition.
and obviously we do respect what his expectations from a wife and surely try to fulfill them. :)
a.)A man with a good looking this point you have left because the girls will first thing lookwise and then only they will look for the points you have said am i right:-)
ReplyDeleteb.)only 40% of girls will get man with all the aspects you have said,because a man with all the aspects seeing will be difficult,can be seen with some of qualities in him as said by you.
It was good to read keep it up and keep posting.....
hmm at the initial stage, yes girls do go for looks but it's not just based on this thing only..sometimes people are not good looking but are presentable, right?
ReplyDeleteWell, sumone has said it very truly, partners are like cell phones...hamesha lagta hai, kuch din aur rook jate to aur achha model mil jata :P
Thank you for reading and keep giving comments :)
Nice post! very true..n practical..
ReplyDeletehowever Its very difficult for a boy to exactly know whats the in the mind of gal.. :o
btw.. good! keep posting..
:) even for a girl as well, it's very difficult to know what's in her mind :P
ReplyDeleteHmm!...may b'coz….
ReplyDelete“A woman's mind is cleaner than a man’s .as. She changes it more often.” :p
Hay! Recently got an email.. ..very nicely describes boy’s expectation from life partner…
its in Marathi.. may b u would hav red.. or else i can paste it here.. :)
:) I have got some mails about the boys expectations.... though U can paste it here or give the link, I can check that and also forward it to my female friends ;)
ReplyDelete1.A man who adores her, and respects her with all the flows.
ReplyDeleteIMPOSSIBLE -> it is directly proportionlay to number of years of relationship
2. A man who stands tall with confidence and thinks "thats my woman!"
same
as above ->IMPOSSIBLE
3. A man who has earned respect, because of who he is to those around him, and not only to her.=>Possible , rare though
4. A man with brains in mind and love in heart and life.=> A boy is either with strong brains or over emotional ... rare combination to find a mix
5. A man with a wit and ambition.->possible , however rare
over all BEST LUCK :)
:)
ReplyDelete1. We don't need years to respect a person.
2. There comes a point in your life when you really think, yes this is the person I was looking for in my life.
4. Brain + Emotions is not that rare combination though...
Thank you and same to you :)
good..!
ReplyDeletea'lly the mail is like fun..:) not serious... n here it will occupy more space on r page..
better i fwd u on y'mail.. (hope u know me..:)
:) Sure do send it to me
ReplyDelete)
ReplyDelete1. We don't need years to respect a person.
=> You misunderstood what i meant to say ... nways
2. There comes a point in your life when you really think, yes this is the person I was looking for in my life.
=> This point comes i agree... the whole point i want to make is people change so do their opening about the person.the famous line goes
before marriage "made for each other"
after marriage "mad about each other" ;)
4. Brain + Emotions is not that rare combination though...
=> hmm... depeneds.
nways as decided lets wait .. and rem. to post a comment here on 25-March-2020.
:)
hey what was that "same to you :)" for ????
ReplyDelete:) yes I remember..
ReplyDeleteAre Same to you was for "All The Best" u wished.
If u have found ur soul mate, all the best to keep the relation live lifelong.
and if u r searching for partner, all the best for ur search....
This is called a "check and met"
ReplyDeleteTumchya sarkhya writer lokanshi bolane mhanje phaar awaghad asaty ... boluch det nahint.
:)
Dhanyawad !!!
:) wellcome!!!
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